Glossary FORE Reference
Use this Glossary FORE Reference as you read through my blogs. CONTEXT & INTENT play a pivotal role in communicating with others -- words and phrases are no longer defined by one definition. Often, a misunderstanding stems from someone's choice of vocabulary. When I say "choice of vocabulary," I mean just that. Based on how you were raised, where you grew up, and your educational background -- the words you chose may have another meaning for someone else. That doesn't make either wrong; it means 2 Things Can Be True At The Same Time.
Someone's vocabulary doesn't define their intelligence; it's just a tool they use to communicate. That said, treat it as such and learn how they use it.
Words, Phrases, & Quotes
FOREward Attitude: To embracing realistic optimism.
Realistic Optimism: The belief that even if the present situation is difficult, it doesn't define the future.
Gratitude: The foundation for positivity. Being grateful improves your mental, emotional, & physical health.
A wise man once said: "I Judge You On What You Do, Not What You Can Do" - D.F.
People Pleaser: Someone willing to put others' needs before their own to please people or receive approval.
Boundary: A small step towards protecting yourself, defining who you are, and caring for your needs.
DRMO: 4 reactions one may have when a boundary is placed on them - Disapprove, Resist, Manipulate, and Offend.
Two Things Can Be True At The Same Time:
(1) The ability to hold two opposed ideas at the same time and still retain validity.
(2) Somethings that look contradictory on the surface can be simultaneously true.
Cleaning Out My Closet: To purge oneself of emotional baggage.
Pride: Having deep pleasure or satisfaction from your achievements.
Mental Health Condition: Brain Disorder or Choice?
(1) A mental health condition is a brain disorder affecting how you think, feel, & function.
(2) But, you can choose to manage it or not. The responsibility is yours.
